Friday, September 26, 2008

what is love?_

recently i came across this question for quite a few times, like on tv, friends' msn nicks, emails and all. then it got me to ponder..ya lor ya lor i always hear pple saying "i love you, you love me". the word 'love' is taken lightly. how can you anyhow anyhow love someone? 'love' is such a serious word, esp in bgr. i can just receive a stupid random msg from a stranger on tagged saying he loves me. hello hello do you know what's love? those despo kias are humiliating the word 'love' can. okay perhaps i don't know what's love as well. since i'm so curious now, i shall do a lil research yo. [lao niang very free now what, cannot is it? :D]

well i heard one from the tv. the guy asked the girl what's love. the girl said it's when you have 10 things and you'll give all 10 of them to him, and you'll regret for not being able to give him the 11th thing. wah wah wahh..

and according to wiki, "love represents a range of emotions and experiences related to the senses of affection and sexual attraction. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. This diversity of meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states." okay okay so wiki thinks that love cannot be clearly defined and it includes many different kind of feelings yo! wooo woooo wooooo..

now let's look at some 'love' quotes okay.


"One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love." - Sophocles

"Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away." - Dorothy Parker

"Love is friendship set on fire." - unknown

"To be in love is merely to be in a state of perceptual anesthesia." - H.L. Mencken

"Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness." - Oliver Wendell Holmes

"Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it." - Robert Mitchum

"Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside." - Margaret Walker

"Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end." - Anonymous

"Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." - Mark Twain

"Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence." - Erich Fromm
i think this is pretty true. guys can use this to cheat lil girls.
girl,"why do you live in this world?"
guy,"because i love you."


"Love doesn't make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile." - Elizabeth Browning

yeah yeah and my favourite one! the longest one as well.
"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down." - Woody Allen

oh my this is getting interesting! i shall go ask my friends what's love..

FRIEND A: love in my dictionary is understand and giving happiness to the person =)

FRIEND B: when you see that someone, your heart will start beating very fast. you wanna get close to that someone yet you're shy.

FRIEND C(claims tt his/her ans is the best): errr.. to give the best you got for him/her.

FRIEND D: i guess love is something too good to be described. like you =D

FRIEND E: someone that you cannot do without

FRIEND F: the feeling of wanting to be together? for better or for worst.. wanting to care for one another

FRIEND G: ai... shi wu si de feng xian. [add-on:kenneth] (ahem. i'm so nice to you okay friend G!:D)

FRIEND H: it is a kind of feeling that.. would make me think of her every min..and wanting her to be by my side when i need her esp when night falls and i'm all alone. and also it makes me feel committed to a relationship and er..willing to make sacrifices for her..

FRIEND I: if you love someone it'll be like you just wanna be with him/her, and hope that you're the only one in his/her eyes like he's the only one in yours.. something like that la! alot more. too long liao!

FRIEND J: when i like EVERYTHING about him/her, it's love :)

so what's love to me? love is when i feel so blissful and blessed when i'm with this certain someone. love is when i can accept whatever flaws this someone has. love is when i can give up everything just for this certain someone. love is whenever i think of this someone, i'll smile unconsciously. love is when there's only this certain someone in my eyes and i won't even bother if lunlun walks by me. love is when i think of having a 'forever' with this someone. love is when i know i can't live without this certain someone. :)

then again..
LOVE is when you eagerly wants to be in his world!

LOVE is when you don't mind being bullied by him!

LOVE is when you're willing to be eaten by him(bei ta chi ding le)!

LOVE is when you're willing to accept all his nagging and complaints and bullshits and craps(be a xiao nv ren)!

LOVE is when you're willing to be unglam just for him!

LOVE is when you're willing to fight with other girls just to have him!

LOVE is when you're willing to PDA(public display of affection) when other pple's camwhoring behind you two(look at the couple at the back!)!

wow wow are you having someone in your mind now? ^^ if yes then just SHANG! xD

chiong ah!
ehh the above is vice versa okay! :D

actually i don't know if i've really been in love before. i don't think so since i'm still living and caring so much about lunlun! ehhh lunlun's album is releasing soooon!! :D

ehh i think my ans for 'what is love' is the BEST lor! lalala. anw thanks to all the contributers LOL. very interesting answers yo.
okay okay it's the end of miss chua's 'love' class! XIA KE LE!!!! ._.

<3
so...what is love? ._.

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