i guess everyone will have this habit of pushing the blame to the others when things go wrong. i just got to blog about this, since i'm a tutor.
as parents, when your child don't achieve good/expected results, the first person you'll blame will be the tutor. like "i've paid so much money to hire this tutor and my child still got such lousy results. what is this. that useless tutor. waste my money."
this is similar to "why didn't my child do well for exams? must be the bad influences ard him/her. they should stop mixing ard with each other."
the truth is, the individual himself has to be responsible too, isn't it? if the individual doesn't want to listen to the tutor, doesn't want to learn, nobody can force him to. how can the parents be so cruel to just push all the blame to the poor tutor(s) when the tutor might be trying all she can to help the child alr?
perhaps everything will be related to the individual. if he/she is willing to learn, with abit of help, results will show.
when the results are up to expectations, parents will think that their child is amazing. who will think that the tutor is awesome, or the pple ard the individual are positive influences. probably just neutral. how is this fair?
anw, there's something i can't understand. when i told my parents i'm having this one and a half months of holiday, they asked me to go get a job. it's only one and a half months, i haven't got any rest and i'm supposed to go get a job? i don't get their point. it's not like we're damn poor and can't afford three meals. it's not like i'm not earning money. it's not like i'm taking money from them. it's not like it's a very long holiday. they said i'll be bored staying at home. NO I WON'T.
here's the irony. when i go out, they'll keep nagging at me for spending so much money when i go out. when i stay at home, they'll nag at me for not getting a job. helllooo how do you know how much i spend when i'm outside? they just want me to get a job. i'm sick of the routine. why must it always be school OR work? can't it be fun? it's just less than a week of holiday and my mum says i should study for next sem. i haven't even enjoyed any shit! FML! >=(
why're there much more problems when i'm having holiday than when i'm not?
well, sometimes i really hope my mum can be more open minded..
and sometimes i really hope some things can remain unchanged..
as parents, when your child don't achieve good/expected results, the first person you'll blame will be the tutor. like "i've paid so much money to hire this tutor and my child still got such lousy results. what is this. that useless tutor. waste my money."
this is similar to "why didn't my child do well for exams? must be the bad influences ard him/her. they should stop mixing ard with each other."
the truth is, the individual himself has to be responsible too, isn't it? if the individual doesn't want to listen to the tutor, doesn't want to learn, nobody can force him to. how can the parents be so cruel to just push all the blame to the poor tutor(s) when the tutor might be trying all she can to help the child alr?
perhaps everything will be related to the individual. if he/she is willing to learn, with abit of help, results will show.
when the results are up to expectations, parents will think that their child is amazing. who will think that the tutor is awesome, or the pple ard the individual are positive influences. probably just neutral. how is this fair?
anw, there's something i can't understand. when i told my parents i'm having this one and a half months of holiday, they asked me to go get a job. it's only one and a half months, i haven't got any rest and i'm supposed to go get a job? i don't get their point. it's not like we're damn poor and can't afford three meals. it's not like i'm not earning money. it's not like i'm taking money from them. it's not like it's a very long holiday. they said i'll be bored staying at home. NO I WON'T.
here's the irony. when i go out, they'll keep nagging at me for spending so much money when i go out. when i stay at home, they'll nag at me for not getting a job. helllooo how do you know how much i spend when i'm outside? they just want me to get a job. i'm sick of the routine. why must it always be school OR work? can't it be fun? it's just less than a week of holiday and my mum says i should study for next sem. i haven't even enjoyed any shit! FML! >=(
why're there much more problems when i'm having holiday than when i'm not?
well, sometimes i really hope my mum can be more open minded..
and sometimes i really hope some things can remain unchanged..
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